Eat, pray, love

和David的爱始于舞台剧，那个推镜头和灯光很漂亮，i bet u think about me mv也有。

有个人一直向雕像祈祷中彩票。雕像最后回：你至少也要买一张。女主在分手后买了三张彩票。黑人女人说“我爱我的家庭，但我也希望能和你一起走”结婚后她少了很多选择权，而Liz还能畅游于这个世界，花时间和自己相处，了解自己是什么样的人

女主做了好多我就算单身都不敢做的事。

“你感到愧疚因为你是美国人”而意大利人则享受着Dolce far nirentee，即 sweetness of doing nothing

“也许你是在找专属词的女人 ”

Liz回前男友的电邮里写到miserable but happy not to be apart。ruin is the road to transformation。整篇电邮：

The great Augustus, Rome's first true great emperor how could he have imagined that Rome, the whole world, as far as he was concerned, would be in ruins?

During the Dark Ages, someone came in here and stole the emperor's ashes. In the 12th century, it became a fortress then a bullring. They stored fireworks in here after that. Nowadays, it's a bathroom for the homeless, so you better watch your step going down.

It's one of the quietest and loneliest places in Rome. The city has grown up around it over centuries. It feels like a precious wound like a heartbreak you won't let go of because it hurts too good... Because we're afraid of change of things crumbling to ruins. Then i looked around in this place, at the chaos it's endured, the way it's been adapted, burned, pillaged.. Then found a way to build itself back up again, and i was reassured. Maybe my life hasn't been so chaotic, it's just the world that is, and the only real trap is getting attached to any of it.

Ruin is a gift. Ruin is the road to transformation

在印度认识了新男友。说实话，我觉得他逼迫女主上船是非常道德绑架的。女主说“I don't need to love you to prove I love myself ”我觉得也说的很对。并不是说选择不跟你一起逃离去小岛就说明我还是受伤害的、被过去阴影缠身的。

不过，因为有教堂元素，我都不敢在我爸在家的时候看。而且我搞不懂。基督教是一神论，为什么她还能去接触其他宗教，让guru带领她？