—你的老板给你的忠告
这篇影评可能有剧透
“Your deductive power are a gift from God,or chance or a stray shot of sperm, or whoever wrote your life script, a gift not earned,
You do not know what I know because you have not earned those powers.
You're careless with those powers.You flaunt them and you throw them around like a brat with his trust fund.
You haven’t had to climb up all the greasy little rungs.
You haven't been bored blind at the fundraisers.
You haven't done the time in that frist marriage to the girl with the right father.
You think you can leap over all in a single bound.
You haven't had to bribe or charm or threaten your way to a seat at that table.
You don't know how to assess your competition because you haven't competed.”
艾迪听完的下一秒不假思索转身离去,老板说完下一刻自信满满回办公室准备给艾迪递offer。
在他的眼里艾迪只是天才的毛头小子,有轻蔑,有嫉妒,有害怕。开启逆天人生的艾迪刚刚开始旅程,一切在他眼里,依然是毛孩,不如自己的摸排滚打,是实实在在的体悟人生。他嫉妒,他费尽心力在攀爬,而艾迪直接在梯阶之上。他贪婪,他费尽心思想要留住艾迪,后期也要和他捆绑。他害怕,要试探“你想要和我一起竞争?”
他意识到这是绝顶的好玉,但是他选择用全篇的否定,以突出艾迪的弱点从而为己卖命。他习惯了威逼利诱的压迫,将鱼儿画地为牢,而不是放诸大海。无论addy多么难掩其色,他永远都会想把他圈在自己的一亩三分地,再戴上过来人给他建议的角色。所以有些人的相遇可以变成知心朋友,有的人就次别过,有的人变成宿敌。聪明一世的老板选择了就此别过并后期变成敌人的方式。
朋友总会想给你很多掏心的建议,而不是句句的否定开启,妄图CPU你的人生,何况还是鼓励式教育的美国。试想他的决定是:“addy,你非常有能力,我很欣赏,勇敢的去追逐你的梦吧,我很期望与你再次合作”很有可能他会成为帮助addy的贵人大哥,最后从容的站在艾迪总统的背后,互相成就。
为何老板会有这种思维模式?不是共赢而是我赢你输,不是corporation而是competition。是他走过的路,每个人都通过自己的痛苦之眼看待世界,世界唯有你,其他万象皆空无。所以他人的opinion取决于你。你可以像艾迪坚定自己的内心。一走了之,不予理会。
艾迪走后会反思其中意思么?好刀配好技,不然他一不小心又会惹上如高利贷哥那种危险人物。宝玉一旦露出锋芒,便开始在刀尖上起舞…