The power of a willed woman, a true story!

“You shouldn’t quit something just cause it is hard”
“Standing strong doesn’t mean just using your legs, you can stand strong on the inside,”
It is what the teacher told the little girl who was disabled when the girl decide to quit.

I am fascinating with music these days, so when I first saw the caption of the movie ”Music of The Heart”, I know it must be the movie I would like.
It is indeed not a movie for commercial means. Movies targeting to make profits are generally worthless. Actually, all meaningful movies are expressions of the thoughts and emotion, or providing innovative perspectives to explore human society. This movie can be classified as a documentary, and also a meaningful one.

A woman, a navy wife, a violin teacher and a mother all these are the roles the actress in the movie has to play in life, and also generally the main social roles of a normal person. The movie reveals several universal issues concerning the social statues of women, divorce, the racial divergence. and more significantly and profoundly, this movie

Music is the language of human inside. ‘When he plays music, his whole face lights up’ when I am listening to music, it can light me up, inspire me and refill my strength. It is also a effective way to relax myself. I thought that music was useless; art is nothing but the debouchments of emotion of some other sensitive person and I don’t need to know what other think about the world. After I experience all these odds and difficulties, I gradually find the value of art. It is magic, and it is the prettiest pieces of work fell down form the heaven besides the nature beauty. I doubt that any talented artiest dare to claim that all the masterpieces are the frution of their hard working. Talent is something endowed by god, and the great pieces of art are also the gifts of god which can make the mundane world a better place. A man cannot appreciate the beauty of art is a great lose. Life without the decoration of art is much less fascinating. I confess I am a boor, and I regret that I cannot find beauty in life. I am a doomed technician and my life destined to relate with coding and calculation, impassive repetitions.

“Nicky is in trouble and you need to deal with it” Imagine if you are the mother and you hear this about you son., What will you think of it? Disappointment, penance , all kind of emotion merges together to anguish you. For a single mother, nothing means more than his sons, the only reliance and the real heart. And nothing is more desperate than a negative son. She can treat herself bad, but she cannot bring any tiny slight injure to her son and also she cannot tolerant the disturbance form the outside to spoil her son.

When I saw that the lieutenant（husband of the violin teacher）deserted his family, his wife and two lovely boys. And saw the grief the family suffered. I was irritated. What a selfish man. That kind of man could never find true love as well as inner satisfaction. I will never do that to my wife especially when she has children to rear, I will never give away my family. For me, it is my essential responsibility to bring them happy. I could never grieve anyone for the sake of my own happiness. And the real happiness is the mental and moral complacent and self appreciation. Though I may not have the chance to flirt with beautiful young ladies, or have some romantic love experience, I will feel satisfied when I have the ability to realize my obligation and actually fulfill my obligation.

There are always being something to light you up, music , children, friends, family. So never lose faith, never give up. Everything matters to me, everyone make sense, I can never lost myself merely because I failed once or someone left me. I have a flexible and abundant life.

Witticisms like“If you have some needs that I don’t meet, you would go and have them met by somebody else”are the sparkles dispersed throughout the movie which are sensible. It points out the essence of relationships between couples. No one can perfectly meet the needs of others, whether you will go to somebody else determines whether you are a man will a sense of responsibility. Love and commitment are interdependent issues. She is so feared to be dumped again, and should we be cautious to begin a new relationship?

“I can take care of myself, and I can take care of you.” It is easier said than done, particularly for a woman. Struggle is the perpetual rhythm of life. One has to strive to achieve some goals or just accept the reality and be indifferent to the losses. However, you have to make change, you have to say no to destine. I believe fate, but I think that sometime fate is just kidding you, and you submit to fate at first hand, you lost the chance to play more. Perhaps if you persist for a while and things will be different. Admittedly, struggle could never be easy, but who knows what you may lose if you give up and just let it be. Therefore, the best strategy is to fight back the predestined fate.

Admittedly, this movie is not perfect. One of the deficiencies is that it brings in too many topic hence none of them can be thoroughly and profoundly anglicized. In this sense, “Crash” is a better movie, it discusses racial discrimination in a more comprehensive way.

This is a movie can broaden your vision, and probably change your mind.