" It takes a very long time for body to be consumed. Many hours for mourners to remember the dead. The fire must be lit at dawn and by sunset there should be nothing left but the ashes. It's our friend that we are grieving for whose life we knew so little, or it's our own loss that we are mourning. Have we travelled far enough that we can allow our to tears to fall?" 在乌代普尔的火葬。一整天焚烧的时间。看同一条河里静默生命流动和流失。在印度，总是不经意觉得禅意的流淌。爱印度的人，爱这种对心灵的洗刷，恨印度的人，是连心灵都打不开的人了。 另外的taken有："The only real failure is the failure to try. And the measure of success is how we cope with disappointment. As we always must.We came here and we tried, all of us in our different ways. Can we be blamed for the feeling that we are too old to change? to scared of disappointment to start again? We get up in the morning and we do our best, nothing else matters. But it's also true that the person who risks nothing, does nothing, has nothing." "Everything will be all right in the end, and if it's not, it's not the end yet."