Coach Carter——What is your deepest fear?
一开始并没觉得有什么特别,就好像修女也疯狂的感觉,好似一个伟大老师,帮助了一群迷途的羔羊一样,以为会是通俗套路~
没想到在这有些通俗的套路当中,酝酿了比“修女也疯狂”更多的东西,种族,社会等级……
记得卡特教练说的,如果我们对15,16,17岁的孩子说胜利就可以不遵守规则,那么他们在不久的将来就会进入监狱~
卡特教练放弃了很多,只为了来这里exert change~帮助一群好的年轻人,上大学,改变命运,不用像他们的父母那样~
胜利赢球真的就那么重要么?不是的~孩子的未来和成长才是最重要的……
而现在有多少家长,如同电影中的家长那样呢?
对孩子最大的期待不过是打好球,只要孩子不打球就怕做坏事,觉得孩子人生中最灿烂的时光就是这段打球的日子,没有人对他们报以期望……
中国这样的家长不多吧,都是望子成龙望女成凤~
可是,有时候,有没有想过,所谓竞赛,所谓金牌,所谓特长生,是不是也有一些病态和畸形呢?盲目追求的只是所谓的胜利,而忽视了一些更为重要的东西……
我很幸运,家里的环境很宽松,很民主~
我也很幸运,一直都比较顺风顺水,坎坷不多~
我也许甚至还不知道自己deepest fear是什么~
电影里的小伙子们,从boys到men的过程,其实才是最重要的~
套用一句新东方的俗话“从绝望中寻找希望,人生终将辉煌”
这群小伙子们,输了比赛,却赢得了人生~
最后附上一段最震撼我的原文:
“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.
Your playing small does not serve the world.
There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't insecure around you.
We were all meant to shine, as children do.
It's not just in some of us, it's in everyone.
And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.
As we are liberated from our own fear.
Our presence automatically liberates others”
没想到在这有些通俗的套路当中,酝酿了比“修女也疯狂”更多的东西,种族,社会等级……
记得卡特教练说的,如果我们对15,16,17岁的孩子说胜利就可以不遵守规则,那么他们在不久的将来就会进入监狱~
卡特教练放弃了很多,只为了来这里exert change~帮助一群好的年轻人,上大学,改变命运,不用像他们的父母那样~
胜利赢球真的就那么重要么?不是的~孩子的未来和成长才是最重要的……
而现在有多少家长,如同电影中的家长那样呢?
对孩子最大的期待不过是打好球,只要孩子不打球就怕做坏事,觉得孩子人生中最灿烂的时光就是这段打球的日子,没有人对他们报以期望……
中国这样的家长不多吧,都是望子成龙望女成凤~
可是,有时候,有没有想过,所谓竞赛,所谓金牌,所谓特长生,是不是也有一些病态和畸形呢?盲目追求的只是所谓的胜利,而忽视了一些更为重要的东西……
我很幸运,家里的环境很宽松,很民主~
我也很幸运,一直都比较顺风顺水,坎坷不多~
我也许甚至还不知道自己deepest fear是什么~
电影里的小伙子们,从boys到men的过程,其实才是最重要的~
套用一句新东方的俗话“从绝望中寻找希望,人生终将辉煌”
这群小伙子们,输了比赛,却赢得了人生~
最后附上一段最震撼我的原文:
“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.
Your playing small does not serve the world.
There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't insecure around you.
We were all meant to shine, as children do.
It's not just in some of us, it's in everyone.
And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.
As we are liberated from our own fear.
Our presence automatically liberates others”
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