星期主题--离婚

一个星期之内，出差前听说一个特别温顺的姑娘离婚；出差期间听说一个貌似特别幸福的男生前一天领了离婚证；出差回来，连看两集DH，看到lynette 和tom分开了。

看到tom的样子，我突然想起几个季之前他曾经让我感动的一塌糊涂，我当时有感而发的博客如下

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 I need u not be perfect

  
绝望的主妇, season 6,
episode 4
lynnet和tom谈论起breast。lynnet问tom是不是feel compromised 和no big boops 的她在一起，tom说是，i nee u not be perfect because i am not perfect. 然后狂说lynnet多么好，自己多么的不好blabla.
 
episode 5.
tom和别人谈起lynnet，tom说lynnet没有安全感，it left her with this constant fear that everything could suddenly fall apart. and that's why she needs to control everything. Of course she can't. Nobody can. but she can control me, if I let her. So I do.because it makes her feel safe. and that is my job as her husband to make her fell safe
 
tom 在各个方面都不是剧中最好的男人。但是，这样两段话，让他突然成了剧中最懂得爱，最值得去爱的男人。"

时间是2009年11月1日。

哎，真是太不靠谱了，所有的事，所有的人。