愛是什麽
我终于忍不住潸然泪下是Dan在恋情曝光后,面对三个女儿保证自己不会忘记亡妻的时候。
I miss your mom.
我想念你们的妈妈
All the time and l always will.
一直都是,将来也是
I see her every day.
我每天都能看见她
I see her in your goodness, Jane.
Jane,我在你的善良中看到她
And, Cara, your passion.
Cara,还有你的热忱
And,Lilly,you have her eyes.
Lily,你有和她一样的眼睛
And her smile.
以及她的微笑
So here's what I'm going to do:
所以我将要做的是:
I am grounding myself for life.
我将自我监禁一辈子
I'm sticking with you.
我会和你们永不分离
I am going to be with you...
我会和你们在一起
I'm not going anywhere.
我哪里也不去
真正刻骨铭心的爱,不会在其中一个人缺席余下的生命的时候结束。被死亡留下的那一个人,会把记忆和生活当成上帝赐予的礼物而视如珍宝。哪怕要进行痛苦的自我牺牲也在所不惜。离开的人,总会以别的方式存在。
而那些你始终珍惜的善解人意,热烈的爱,坚定的眼神和温暖的笑容,迟早会回报你以理解和支持。
这个男人,他的情话独一无二,直指人心。一见倾心的时候,他会感叹:''Did I just die? Because an angel walked into the room."你是他的天使,他甘愿赴汤蹈火。明知道是错的,他也在所不惜。他对你承诺:''I'll forgive you your past if you'll forgive me mine."不曾经历的过去不应该成为彼此厮守的阻碍,只要你们全身心接受对方。
我知道它是部不折不扣的温馨家庭片,但最感动我的,是这一大家子对爱的讨论和执着。
Infatuation is not love.
迷恋不是爱
Sexual attraction is not love.
性的吸引不是爱
What is it?
什么是爱?
It's frustrating that you can't be with this person?
它是当你不能和这个人在一起时的心灰意冷
That there's something keeping you apart, something about this person you connect with?
当一些与这个人相关的东西阻挡分离你们
And whenever you're near this person,, you don't know what to say, and you say everything that's
in your mind and in your heart.
无论何时,当你和这个人在一起,你不知道该说什么。你诉说你想的一切。
And you know that if you could just be together, that this person will help you, become the best possible version of yourself.
而如果你知道你们能长相厮守,这个人会帮助你,成为你自己能成为的最好的样子
爱从来就不是青春期荷尔蒙分泌过盛的产物,也不是意乱情迷的动荡不安。爱也不仅仅是美好的初吻和紧密的拥抱,更不仅仅是追求自由的权利和反抗压迫的呐喊。爱是能让你成为最好的自己的那个人的一颦一笑,还有你们不离不弃的每时每刻。
Love is a dangerous feeling.
爱是一种危险的感觉
Love is not a feeling, it's an ability.
爱不是一种感觉,爱是一种能力
How is that sweet?
什么很甜蜜?
To be that certain.
彼此那么坚定不移
To feel so much love.
感受那么丰盛的爱
篇末的独白是这样的:
If we're really honest with ourselves, most of the time our plans don't work out as we'd hoped.
如果我们能开诚布公,大多数时候我们的计划总是不如我们预期的那样奏效
So instead of asking our young people, ''What are your plans? What do you plan to do with your life?"
所以停止询问我们的年轻人:“你的计划是什么?你计划如何度过你的人生?”
Maybe we should tell them this: plan to be surprised.
或许我们应该告诉他们:准备迎接惊喜
时刻准备着那些生命中让人笑中带泪的惊喜。比如转角遇到的爱情,比如寸步不离的守护。比如坚定地踏上征途,勇往直前;比如无畏地表达自我,追求幸福;比如独立地思考问题,做出抉择。
比如,一如既往地爱,治愈过往的伤痛。
I miss your mom.
我想念你们的妈妈
All the time and l always will.
一直都是,将来也是
I see her every day.
我每天都能看见她
I see her in your goodness, Jane.
Jane,我在你的善良中看到她
And, Cara, your passion.
Cara,还有你的热忱
And,Lilly,you have her eyes.
Lily,你有和她一样的眼睛
And her smile.
以及她的微笑
So here's what I'm going to do:
所以我将要做的是:
I am grounding myself for life.
我将自我监禁一辈子
I'm sticking with you.
我会和你们永不分离
I am going to be with you...
我会和你们在一起
I'm not going anywhere.
我哪里也不去
真正刻骨铭心的爱,不会在其中一个人缺席余下的生命的时候结束。被死亡留下的那一个人,会把记忆和生活当成上帝赐予的礼物而视如珍宝。哪怕要进行痛苦的自我牺牲也在所不惜。离开的人,总会以别的方式存在。
而那些你始终珍惜的善解人意,热烈的爱,坚定的眼神和温暖的笑容,迟早会回报你以理解和支持。
这个男人,他的情话独一无二,直指人心。一见倾心的时候,他会感叹:''Did I just die? Because an angel walked into the room."你是他的天使,他甘愿赴汤蹈火。明知道是错的,他也在所不惜。他对你承诺:''I'll forgive you your past if you'll forgive me mine."不曾经历的过去不应该成为彼此厮守的阻碍,只要你们全身心接受对方。
我知道它是部不折不扣的温馨家庭片,但最感动我的,是这一大家子对爱的讨论和执着。
Infatuation is not love.
迷恋不是爱
Sexual attraction is not love.
性的吸引不是爱
What is it?
什么是爱?
It's frustrating that you can't be with this person?
它是当你不能和这个人在一起时的心灰意冷
That there's something keeping you apart, something about this person you connect with?
当一些与这个人相关的东西阻挡分离你们
And whenever you're near this person,, you don't know what to say, and you say everything that's
in your mind and in your heart.
无论何时,当你和这个人在一起,你不知道该说什么。你诉说你想的一切。
And you know that if you could just be together, that this person will help you, become the best possible version of yourself.
而如果你知道你们能长相厮守,这个人会帮助你,成为你自己能成为的最好的样子
爱从来就不是青春期荷尔蒙分泌过盛的产物,也不是意乱情迷的动荡不安。爱也不仅仅是美好的初吻和紧密的拥抱,更不仅仅是追求自由的权利和反抗压迫的呐喊。爱是能让你成为最好的自己的那个人的一颦一笑,还有你们不离不弃的每时每刻。
Love is a dangerous feeling.
爱是一种危险的感觉
Love is not a feeling, it's an ability.
爱不是一种感觉,爱是一种能力
How is that sweet?
什么很甜蜜?
To be that certain.
彼此那么坚定不移
To feel so much love.
感受那么丰盛的爱
篇末的独白是这样的:
If we're really honest with ourselves, most of the time our plans don't work out as we'd hoped.
如果我们能开诚布公,大多数时候我们的计划总是不如我们预期的那样奏效
So instead of asking our young people, ''What are your plans? What do you plan to do with your life?"
所以停止询问我们的年轻人:“你的计划是什么?你计划如何度过你的人生?”
Maybe we should tell them this: plan to be surprised.
或许我们应该告诉他们:准备迎接惊喜
时刻准备着那些生命中让人笑中带泪的惊喜。比如转角遇到的爱情,比如寸步不离的守护。比如坚定地踏上征途,勇往直前;比如无畏地表达自我,追求幸福;比如独立地思考问题,做出抉择。
比如,一如既往地爱,治愈过往的伤痛。
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