Build life or adventure?
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刚看完《Rumor has it...》。
看似像《毕业生》的续集番外。
只记几处小触动。
Sarah回去找Jeff。
Jeff: It doesn't work that way, ok? U can't just walk in here now and tell me that u can't live without me. What am I supposed to do with that? I am supposed to make it all right for u? I can't do that anymore.
Sarah: I don't want u to. I love u. I didn't come here to tell u that I can't live without u. I can live without u... I just don't want to.
没错,这世上谁离了谁就活不成我是从来不信的。I can live without u. 离开其实很容易很简单。从这个世界人间蒸发或是消失也并不是一件太难的事。什么都不要管了,全部都推开就可以。这世上没了谁我都能活得好好的。没有谁离不开谁,关键是你是不是想要离开。 But i just don't want to.
还有一句,Sarah对她sisiter说的。It's more important who u re with than what u re doing.
最后,关乎婚姻到底是adventure还是build life。其实我觉得这个问题嘛,婚姻之于我,还是必须建立在爱情的基础上的。因为如果不是我那么爱的人,我根本就不可能会有想要跟他have alongtime marriage and build life的念头。当然是因为爱,才会有想一直一直都和这个人都在一起的念头。跟一个自己不爱的人结婚,只因为他稳重踏实适合过日子。Crazy? How come? 这样的想法在我看来根本是荒谬可笑而且不合乎道德的。
其实,要跟一个人结婚,一辈子在一起build life,本来就是一场adventure,不是么?
Build life or adventure? 这本来就不是选择题。
看似像《毕业生》的续集番外。
只记几处小触动。
Sarah回去找Jeff。
Jeff: It doesn't work that way, ok? U can't just walk in here now and tell me that u can't live without me. What am I supposed to do with that? I am supposed to make it all right for u? I can't do that anymore.
Sarah: I don't want u to. I love u. I didn't come here to tell u that I can't live without u. I can live without u... I just don't want to.
没错,这世上谁离了谁就活不成我是从来不信的。I can live without u. 离开其实很容易很简单。从这个世界人间蒸发或是消失也并不是一件太难的事。什么都不要管了,全部都推开就可以。这世上没了谁我都能活得好好的。没有谁离不开谁,关键是你是不是想要离开。 But i just don't want to.
还有一句,Sarah对她sisiter说的。It's more important who u re with than what u re doing.
最后,关乎婚姻到底是adventure还是build life。其实我觉得这个问题嘛,婚姻之于我,还是必须建立在爱情的基础上的。因为如果不是我那么爱的人,我根本就不可能会有想要跟他have alongtime marriage and build life的念头。当然是因为爱,才会有想一直一直都和这个人都在一起的念头。跟一个自己不爱的人结婚,只因为他稳重踏实适合过日子。Crazy? How come? 这样的想法在我看来根本是荒谬可笑而且不合乎道德的。
其实,要跟一个人结婚,一辈子在一起build life,本来就是一场adventure,不是么?
Build life or adventure? 这本来就不是选择题。
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