不离婚的理由-来自梅姨那段台词

从电影的中间开始就一直哭，当艾伦发现父亲不为人知的那一面和从小到大那么高大那么崇拜的强烈对比，开始觉得母亲生活的无趣，照顾她日复一日的辛苦，孤独。 最让我动容的还是母女俩那段最重要的对话，因为没法在网上找到台词，就自己听写了下来，很多地方不一定准确。但是这段话真的给我很多的力量,也回答了我很多这么多年想不通的事情。

“There is nothing that you know your father that I don't know, and i understand better.you may consisous that you marry a long time, but you don't believe that at the beginning, when you are young that you will not tolerate this or that, but time goes by darling. when you slept together thousand of night with him that you smell the spit on your babies and you see your body get sick and not smooth. some night you may said I will not stand for a minute but you wake up the next morning, the kitchen smell like coffee, and the kids have their hair by themselves , you look at your husband, he is not the person you thought he was, but he is your life, your kids, your life your everything is build around him, that is your life, that is your history too. you take it off , cut his face out of the picture, makes a big hole and ruins everything, you can be hard and very judgmental, this few things will make your life mess off, but you would not believe that I will not be able to tell you these when I know how most of yours came from your dad that hurts my heart, what I say is hurts you. I already say everything I say, exept I am sad, I am sad that I am not able to plan your wedding, If I know that you will be happy, I will close my eyes now. it is so easy to be happy, to love the things you have not you missing or you image you missing, that will so much be more peaceful. Ellen

夫妻关系真是有太多面了，那个全家福上巨大的洞🕳️，我选择扔掉删除，也承受着因此带来的很多不为人知的痛苦和挣扎。但是这个选择我从来没有后悔，日子在越来越好，快乐或者不快乐不那么容易掩饰。我愿意放弃所有去追求真实，踏实的活着。

心疼妈妈，曾经的爸爸也是电影里的模样，但是现在我们很少交谈了。打过去的电话经常被提前挂掉。时常怀疑自己是不是不够孝顺毕竟他已经老了。但是心里我无法原谅他对妈妈做的。