I’m shocked by how people react because I’m too privileged

Am I too privileged to think it’s wrong to just bully a broken woman like this? People say to her, go back and be white, the identity the entire society is trying to force on her. People feel threatened personally for this individual’s existence. While her existence does not cause all the racial problems, she becomes the blame for the system’s failures and oppressions. I too, feel sorry for her sons, but why not blame the abusers instead of her? She is trying to be herself and the crowd does not let her, that I understand, but she has already taken up enough backlashes and hatred for it. Just leave her alone.