女性版本 闻香识女人

inspiring lines:

1. so i hear you kids are risk. all kids are risk, you know. show me a kid who is no risk and i’d show you a kid who would be a nobody. taking risks is what life is all about. i took a risk, and i went to college. And in my day, no man want to marry woman who was educated, no man wanted to marry woman who worked, no man wanted a woman he worked for. but my favorite was no man wanted to marry a woman in bussiness. so those are the risk i am willing to take.

why? why you take those risks?

because there is no way i will NOT leave up my protential, so you have to ask your self these question———are you willing to take your risks to do something stupid, or are you willing to take your risks to do something great?

2.you think Sunday my father may show up and trying to get food with me?

i don’ t know, is that what you want? (pause) i get it, you want it, but you wish you didn’t.

yeah~i guess so.

i get it. my mom left home when i was younger than you.

have you seen her since?

nope.

i haven’t seen my dad either.

sucks right?

(thinking...)his lost, yeah, his lost. i am awesome.

yeah, you ARE awesome.

i know, you are awesome, too.

you think so,you think i am awesome?

you know what i think?

what?

FUCK THEM ALL.

thoughts：

shitty原生家庭给我们的通病，就是让我们有被抛弃感，并且认为家人抛弃是自己的问题，然后是无法抗拒的自毁倾向或是不断自我怀疑，无法建立应有的自信。so you know what? his lost, i am awesome. FUCK them all.

女孩，要自信，be something, live you life，别怕失败。