That's the little stuff. What r u gonna do when the big stuff comes along? What r u gonna do when a tornado hits ur house? Or u have problems with ur kids? Or one of u gets cancer? At some point, the crap is going to hit the fan, and that's why now, before u made a commitment, you have to ask urself, is that the person in bed next to you worth the trouble? Do u have him or her so much that no disease or disasters could possibly pull u apart?