成长，友情，爱情，自我

关于成长， 教授对威尔说：

You are just a kid, you don't know what you are talking about.

So, if I asked you about art, you'd probably give me the skinny on Every art book ever written. Michelangelo. You know a lot about him: life's work, political aspirations, him and the Pope, sexual orientation, the whole works, right? But I bet you can't tell me what it smells like in the Sistine Chapel. You've never actually stood there and looked up at that beautiful ceiling…seeing that.
 
If I ask you about women, you'll probably give me a syllabus of your personal favorites. You may have even been laid a few times. But you can't tell me what it feels like to wake up next to a woman and feel truly happy.

You're a tough kid. And I ask you about war, you'd probably, uh, throw Shakespeare at me, right? "Once more onto the breach, dear friends…"But you've never been near one. You've never held your best friend's head in your lap…and watched him gasp his last breath, lookin' to you for help. I ask you about love, you'll probably quote me a sonnet. But you've never looked at a woman and been totally vulnerable……Known someone that could level you with her eyes……feelin' like God put an angel on earth just for you……who could rescue you from the depths of hell……

You don't know about real loss……'cause that only occurs when you love something more than you love yourself. I doubt you've ever dared to love anybody that much.

所以教授可以原谅威尔的挑衅，因为 I look at you.I don't see an intelligent, confident man. I see a cocky, scared, shitless kid.


关于友情，查克对威尔说：

Every day I come by your house, and I pick you up.We go out and have a few drinks and few laughs, and it's great.You know what the best part of my day is?It's for about ten seconds: from when I pull up to the curb and when I get to your door.'Cause I think maybe I'll get up there and I'll knock on the door and you won't be there.No "good-bye," no "see ya later." No nothing. You just left.I don't know much, but I know that.

所以当查克最后一次敲响威尔的门而得不到回应时，丝丝失落下是掩饰不住的上扬的嘴角，和轻快的步伐。


关于爱情，教授对威尔说：

Maybe you're perfect right now. Maybe you don't wanna ruin that. But I think that's a super philosophy. That way, you can go through your entire life without ever having to really know anybody. People call these things "imperfections," but they're not.That's the good stuff. And then we get to choose who we let into our weird little worlds.

You're not perfect. And let me save you the suspense.This girl you met, she isn't perfect either.But the question is whether or not you're perfect for each other.That's the whole deal. That's what intimacy is all about.Now you can know everything in the world, but the only way you're findin' out that one is by givin' it a shot.

所以最后，放下戒备的威尔以教授的line回敬教授，Sorry i had to go see about a girl.

关于儿时被虐教授对威尔说：

It's not your fault.

有时表面的无谓或强悍不过是为了掩饰内心的脆弱，有时解除自卑重拾对他人对自己的信任只需有人告诉你“这不是你的错” 所以有了这段经典对白：

It's not your fault.
I know.
No, It's not your fault.
(nod) I know.
No no, you don't. It's not your fault.
Hmm? I know.
It's not your fault.
Alright.
It's not your fault.
....
It's not your fault.
Dont fuck with me.
It's not your fault.
Dont fuck with me alright? Don't fuck with me, shean, not you!
It's not your fault.
(cry)....
It's not your fault.
(crying hug)Oh God! My God! I'm so sorry! My God!
Fuck them ok？

至此威尔解除心魔，卸下防备。我也开始泪奔。好莱坞90年代的片子真是煽情的自然不做作。难怪都说90年代是电影的黄金时期，现在的奥斯卡得奖影片真的不是一个量级。