片中警察的话特别哲理。: “In France, get your American feeling about possession, of ownership, of war, of violence. Try to feel different. What's wrong about going to a club and fucking all the women because you know you will fuck all the women in your life.
然后就怂恿男主带女主一起去sex club: But you will fuck all the women in your life in the back. Here (in France) you do it with her. You develop your confidence, your trust. I'm sure you will like it. They are gorgeous women, beautiful women. It's clean. It's nice. There's music.
然后讨论了sex, love and life balance: I live my sexuality in a good way. I will relax, calm and balance. I don't have the feeling you have. I don't beat people. And that's probably the most beautiful thing you can do with your girlfriend. Just to know that she has other desires, and you often have other desires. Bring her. She would enjoy watching you fuck another woman, as long as she knows you come back with her.
那么导演想质问的一个问题大概就是：怎么平衡sex desire和love sustainability了。片中的男主女主很积极的去满足自己的sex desire，玩threesome，去sex club，cheating. 欲望得到了满足了，之后又不得不面对接连不断的问题，直到第三者怀上男主的孩子。沉溺于欲望让他们彼此不再有正面的影响，sex life become all the love life，他们爱，却爱得很单薄。