First: It reminds us again. We are not holding up our heart to meet a guy for thousands of money and fancy cars. We move back and forward again and again just for someone who could really talk to your heart. Not one approaches you with plenty of meaning less material stuff. And if you do accept such guy, that will be a materially mistake that you are going to regret and stick with for the rest of your life.
Perhaps, we sometimes think, maybe we lost the ability to love. But never mind, Still you would eventually meet the one and with two sweet little kids.
Second: The most decent life is to Find your besties and drink beers with them; Cuddle with the one you love and do not ever let him go.