episode 6

It takes, first of all, a lot of love and want to change. And you also have to want it enough that you would be willing to change something in yourself, something fundamental. And that's a very difficult thing to do. You have to really want the relationship and love your partner in a way that move you to transcend yourself. You know, everyone hopes that "If I could just change something in my partner, if they were just this way or that way, it would be better." But really, the only change that happens if you crave the relationship, love the person enough that you're gonna move beyond something in yourself.